Many of us have people in our lives who, to put it bluntly, bring us down. When you are regularly exposed to their negative influence, their attitude and their moods, it can drain your energy and steal your peace. You were not created to live in a negative world just because you keep negative people close.

Protecting your well-being is not selfish. It is wise. Pay attention to who you feel lighter around and who you feel heavier around. Some people do not need a front-row seat in your life. They can be cared about from a distance. You do not have to argue with negativity. You can set boundaries. You can limit access. You can stop giving your time to conversations that lead nowhere. You can choose healthier relationships that bring encouragement, growth and peace.

Start building a circle that supports your future, not your stress. Surround yourself with people who speak life into you, challenge you to grow and celebrate your progress. Peace is not something you find by accident. Peace is something you protect on purpose. Your peace is not up for debate, so stop negotiating with people who only show up to argue.