It’s a common tendency for us to want to change people, especially when we believe that our perspective or way of doing things is superior or more beneficial. However, it’s important to recognize that we cannot control or force others to change. People have their own unique experiences, beliefs, and values that shape who they are and expecting them to conform to our ideals is short sided on our part. Sometimes we put too much effort into trying to change people when we should just let them be! It’s not our job or responsibility to change anyone, it’s our responsibility to change ourselves.