When something goes wrong, it’s easy to focus on one question:

Why did this happen?

Sometimes there is no satisfying answer.

A more useful question may be:

What can I do with what happened?

Learn from it. Adjust something. Try again. Change direction. Help someone else avoid the same mistake.

You cannot always control the setback, but you can decide whether the experience becomes baggage or wisdom.

You can’t always choose the experience, but you can choose whether you leave it with a lesson.